I need a life

I've decided that I need a life. I've known this for quite some time but have never really done anything about it. Today I decided I have to get out and do something. I'm joining the VFW Women's aux and applying for admision to the Eastern Star. I have already contacted both organizations for admission information. For anyone who knows me - the "Sam" situation is no better than it has ever been. I'm stuck in a relationship that is not even what I'd call a relationship and is in NO WAY fullfilling. I figure women's clubs will at least get me out of the house once in a while. I need to network, socialize, DO SOMETHING.